Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. In this special 4th of July episode, I take you behind the scenes of our small-town festival, an old-school ox roast that’s been going strong for 50 years. I talk about the thousands of pounds of meat we cook, the work our fire department puts in, and the joy it brings to our community. But more than that, I open up about how this tradition helped me move through grief, find purpose again, and stay connected to the people I love—even when times are hard.
You’ll hear a little about how I joined the fire department after the loss of my best friend and how the festival became a healing place for me. I also share some powerful updates on Wyatt, how chiropractic care is helping him, and the small victories we’re seeing that mean the world.
If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, I hope this episode reminds you that something beautiful can come from the hardest things. And that even if you can’t be in a crowd this weekend, you can still make memories, whether it’s watching fireworks from your car or starting a backyard water fight with the kids. Simple joy is still joy.
Key Takeaways
Small-town traditions matter. They create space for healing, community, and legacy.
Hardship can lead to purpose. My journey from grief to joining the fire department is proof.
Wyatt is progressing! From riding scooters to getting out of the pool calmly, we’re seeing real growth.
Find the joy where you are. Whether you’re lighting sparklers or pulling out a sprinkler, make it a celebration.
Remember what the 4th is really about. It’s more than food and fireworks, it’s about freedom and honoring those who made it possible.
Call me old school, but I will never stop being thankful for our veterans, for our freedoms, and for every small moment with our kids. If you're in a hard season, keep going. Something good is waiting for you.
Let’s keep showing up for our families and for each other.
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