A Different Perspective Official Podcast - People We Wouldn't Invite to Christmas // Old Story, New Twist, Part 8

Christmas isn't always a happy occasion. In fact, for many, it can be quite a horror. Especially if you have to spend time with people you don't like. People who, perhaps, have hurt you in the past. So, question, how much are you looking forward to tomorrow?

You know one of the really bad things about Christmas Ð I'm sorry to talk about bad things the day before Christmas but there are not many places we don't go on this program Ð so, here's one of the really bad things about Christmas. Having to spend time with family or relatives that you haven't seen all year.

And there's a reason you haven't seen them all year. It's because you don't really get on with them. But for some reason families insist on getting together at Christmas. And so, maybe there's a sister or a brother-in-law or a mother-in-law or someone that you just don't get on with that you're going to have to put up with this Christmas day. For lunch or for dinner or maybe they're even coming to stay at your house or you're going to stay at theirs.

Now we may not want to admit that that's how we feel but you know exactly what I'm talking about. There are some people in our lives who, frankly, we'd rather not invite to Christmas. We just don't get on with them. And maybe that's actually why, in most cultures, domestic violence is at its absolute highest at Christmas time. Sad but true.

So here's the question, what are you going to do with those people tomorrow? It's Christmas day. You're going to have to put up with them and somehow, just putting up with them doesn't seem very Christmassy does it? It's kind of a niggling, uncomfortable feeling even to think about how we feel about these people, especially at Christmas.

It's hard isn't it? We want to be godly and friendly and nice to people but some people just rub us up the wrong way. They're so opinionated they drive us nuts. Or maybe there's a past hurt there, a fractured relationship with issues that have never been resolved. It's hard if you believe in Jesus and you hear His words about forgiveness ringing in your ears. He says:

"For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others neither will your Father forgive you."

That comes from Matthew chapter 6, verses 14 and 15.

What am I going to do with that person this Christmas? If I had my way there's no way I would ever have invited them.

Why are we talking about this the day before Christmas? Because honestly this is an issue in more homes than we would care to admit. And it's going to becoming to a head again in just a few short hours when Christmas happens for yet another year.

Now, I don't know but my hunch is that Gods looking down on all this strife and unforgiveness and discontent as we celebrate the coming of His Son. My hunch is He's looking at this stuff going on and He's not at all well pleased with it. And when we're doing stuff or involved in stuff or even contributing to stuff that He's not pleased with, that's called sin and we shouldn't expect to have any joy in our hearts. And isn't joy what this amazing celebration of the coming of Gods own Son should be all about?

So, a few of us have a few issues to resolve in our hearts before we sit down for Christmas lunch with our family and friends tomorrow. That's why we're talking about this and actually GodÕs Word has something specific, something very specific to say into this situation.

It comes through some men that I seem to talk about just about every Christmas. I can't help myself. These are the wise men from the east. We think of these as the three wise men because that's what we sing about in the Christmas carol but actually we don't know how many of them there were.

But they're an interesting bunch for one reason. Because they're not the sorts of people that you and I would have wanted to invite along to Christmas. Let's have