On Purpose with Jay Shetty

What makes you feel stuck right now?

How do you tackle time-consuming tasks?

Today, Jay sits down with Grammy-nominated rapper, multi-platinum artist, and first-time author, Big Sean. This special episode marks Sean’s third appearance on the show, but this time, he’s here to share deeper insights into mental health, purpose, and his debut book, Go Higher, set to release in January 2025.

During the conversation, Big Sean reflects on his personal battles with anxiety, depression, and letting go of control. He shares the transformative role of spiritual practices in his life and how they inspired him to write a book that offers tools for self-care, growth, and purpose. Sean opens up about one of the toughest lessons he's ever had to learn — accepting the things he can't change — and how that acceptance became his pathway to peace and clarity.

Jay and Sean also explore the power of "separating self from success," where Sean explains why money isn’t the true measure of success. Instead, he defines success as the feeling of living in alignment with your purpose and positively impacting others.

In a vulnerable moment, Sean discusses the grief of experiencing a miscarriage and how he and his partner found light in the darkness. He also opens up about his journey with fatherhood, the process of quitting Adderall, and how he manages trauma through intentional strategy and meditation. From music to mindfulness, Sean reflects on his evolution as an artist, a man, and now, an author.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Redefine Success on Your Own Terms

How to Use Radical Acceptance to Overcome Life’s Challenges

How to Separate Self-Worth from Wealth and Achievement

How to Attract Purpose Instead of Chasing It

How to Embrace Spiritual Growth for Mental Clarity and Peace

Every challenge you face holds the seed of transformation. When you accept your reality and stop resisting, you open yourself up to new opportunities for growth. Let Big Sean’s wisdom guide you on your journey to go higher.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

04:05 Sharing Personal Hardships Through Writing

06:36 Define Your Idea of Success

10:17 The Power of Separation?

12:41 The Kobe Mindset

16:43 Acceptance Isn’t Giving Up

20:07 Attracting Energy versus Chasing Energy

27:09 Learnings From Being a Father

31:39 Living Through Your Kids

33:33 Healing Generational Trauma

35:06 Teach Your Child to Be Confident

38:08 How Do You Become Strategic?

41:42 Effectivity in Being Strategic

45:58 Learn to Set Boundaries

49:35 Respect Your Self

52:55 Don’t Lose Yourself

55:01 Exercising Boundaries

58:00 Affirmations, Gratitude, and Journaling

01:02:44 What’s Your Meditation Practice?

01:07:00 Different Approaches to Therapy

01:08:24 Battling with Addiction and Depression

01:14:26 The Importance of Education 

01:17:32 Giving Up Music

01:18:42 Last Conversation with Kanye

01:23:53 Staying Optimistic After Miscarriage

01:26:18 Finding Hope in Dark Times

01:27:34 Living with Miracles Everyday

Episode Resources:

Big Sean | Website

Big Sean | X

Big Sean | Instagram 

Big Sean | Tiktok 

Big Sean | Youtube

Big Sean | Facebook

Go Higher: Five Practices for Purpose, Success, and Inner Peace

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Do you think one bad night of sleep can really harm your body?

Would you try a routine that could help you reverse aging?

Today, Jay sits down with Bryan Johnson, entrepreneur and founder of Blueprint, who is redefining human health and longevity. Dubbed "the world's most measured human," Bryan shares his extraordinary journey of reversing aging and improving biological performance through science-backed methods and a meticulously designed lifestyle.

Bryan discusses how his $2 million-a-year protocol isn't just about extreme spending but about pioneering a blueprint for everyone. He explains the concept of "don't die," emphasizing the potential for humanity to extend life and improve health at unprecedented levels. From his diet of precision-crafted meals to his groundbreaking work in measuring microplastics and organ health, Bryan's insights challenge conventional norms about aging, health, and longevity.

Together with Jay, Bryan dives deep into actionable takeaways, such as the five pillars of perfect sleep, the importance of building systems over relying on willpower, and how to minimize exposure to environmental toxins like microplastics. Bryan also addresses controversial topics, including the downsides of cheat days and the role of technology in managing health.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reverse Aging Through Measured Health Metrics

How to Optimize Your Diet for Longevity

How to Manage Stress With Better Sleep

How to Create a System for Healthy Living

How to Rewire Your Taste Buds for Better Nutrition

How to Lower Inflammation With Simple Daily Habits

You don’t need millions of dollars or cutting-edge technology to start—just a commitment to making small, intentional changes. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:31 How Long Can a Person Live?

04:19 The Most Measured Person

06:34 Getting Sustained Hearing Impairment

09:57 Extending Life Before Conception

11:18 How Long Do We Have to Live?

14:22 Every Body I Highly Responsive to Change

16:50 Embryo Selection Through Genetic Markers

18:12 A Generation of Microplastic 

20:42 Simple Ways to Minimize the Influx of Microplastic

23:05 Don’t Drink from Water Bottles

26:01 The Significant Health Threat of Air Pollution

30:11 How Capitalism Affects Health

32:28 5 Ways to Get Better Sleep

40:12 Don’t Miss Your Deep Sleep Window

43:37 The Ill Effects of Poor Sleep

45:48 Invest in Your Health

48:12 What’s Your Protein Intake?

51:22 Bryan’s Perfect Diet

56:11 Eating 3 Meals a Day in 5 Hours

58:21 Rewire Your Taste Buds

59:19 Sensitivity to Air Quality

01:02:36 Are You Scared of Dying?

01:05:58 Prolonging Longevity

01:08:07 Ways to Manage Stress

01:11:00 You Are not Your Thoughts

01:15:37 Health Can Lead to Happiness

01:19:37 Is Reverse Aging Possible?

01:22:25 Bryan on Final Five   

Episode Resources:

Bryan Johnson | Website

Bryan Johnson | X

Bryan Johnson | Instagram 

Bryan Johnson | Tiktok 

Bryan Johnson | Youtube

Bryan Johnson | LinkedIn

Blueprint Protocol

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What’s one goal you want to manifest in 2025?

What small step can you take today toward your goal?

Today, Jay dives into the mindset and practices needed to manifest the life you truly desire in 2025. Picking up where last week’s strategies and habits left off, Jay explores the often-overlooked internal components of goal achievement—your mindset, subconscious programming, and visualization techniques.

He begins by redefining the idea of manifestation, emphasizing the importance of understanding the deeper emotional drivers behind your goals. Whether it's confidence, safety, or self-esteem, Jay explains how aligning with these core desires rather than just material outcomes can unlock true abundance. 

Jay also shares actionable steps for cultivating a manifestation mindset, starting with mastering those subconscious moments just before sleep and upon waking. By integrating affirmations during these times, you can rewire your thought patterns and reinforce your intentions. He introduces the “Rule of Your Most Repeated Thought,” explaining how consistent positive affirmations shape your reality over time.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Rewire Your Mind with Affirmations

How to Visualize the Process, Not Just the Outcome

How to Align Your Energy with Your Goals

How to Avoid Distractions and Stay Focused on Your Target

How to Surround Yourself with Positive Reinforcements

You have everything you need to build the life you envision; it starts with belief and is fueled by consistent effort. Stay focused, stay inspired, and trust in the process—because the life you’re dreaming of is already waiting for you. Keep moving forward; you’ve got this!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:20 Achieving Goals Need the Ability to Visualize

03:20 Step 1: Deeply Know Why You Want What You Want 

05:53 Step 2: Master the Subconscious Moments

10:13 Step 3: You Will Manifest Your Most Repeated Thought

11:52 Step 4: Visualize the Process not the Result

15:08 Vision Boards, Verbal Boards

18:25 What’s Growing in Your Life?

21:07 How to Stop Living a Misaligned Life 

23:15 Keep Books Open in Random Places

25:11 Write Things Down and Post it Around You

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Have you ever let someone just be themselves?

How do you remind yourself what’s in your control?

Today, Jay  sits down with best-selling author and motivational speaker Mel Robbins to discuss her revolutionary “Let Them Theory.” Mel introduces a powerful mindset tool designed to help listeners take control of their thoughts, actions, and emotions while letting go of what they cannot control. This conversation dives into the heart of personal growth, resilience, and building a life centered on peace and purpose.

Mel begins by explaining the core of the “Let Them Theory,” which is about recognizing the limits of control. She emphasizes the importance of letting others be who they are, accepting situations as they unfold, and redirecting focus to what’s within your power. Through vivid examples, Mel demonstrates how this approach can reduce stress, strengthen relationships, and reclaim wasted energy.

Jay and Mel also explore the emotional weight of unmet expectations and the difference between “Let It Go” and “Let Them.” Mel shares how this subtle shift in mindset fosters empowerment rather than passivity. They also discuss the complexities of adult friendships and how they evolve over time. Mel introduces the three pillars of adult friendship—proximity, timing, and energy—and explains how these factors influence the ebb and flow of connections.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Identify What You Can Control

How to Handle Stressful Situations at Work

How to Set Boundaries with Difficult People

How to Let Go of Unmet Expectations

How to Manage Toxic Relationships Effectively

How to Build Meaningful Adult Friendships

How to Reclaim Energy Wasted on Others

Remember, you don’t need to have it all figured out. Start small. Say "let them" to release what’s draining you and "let me" to reclaim your energy and choices.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

01:47 What is the “Let Them” Theory

04:40 The Significant Difference Between “Let Them” and “Let Me”

06:49 Stop Obsessing Over Things You Can’t Control

14:03 People Only Change if They Want to

21:59 How Do You Let Difficult People Be

26:31 Learn to Value Your Time and Energy

35:10 Two Things that Truly Define Love

42:12 Let People Gossip About It

46:34 Don’t Expect Too Much From Others

58:22 You Aren’t Unlovable, Let Them

01:01:12 Let Them Lie to You, It’s Their Truth

01:04:17 Why is Adult Friendship Difficult?

01:12:35 The Hardest Way to Practice the “Let Them” Theory

Episode Resources:

Mel Robbins | Website

Mel Robbins | Instagram

Mel Robbins | YouTube

Mel Robbins | TikTok

The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Let Them Theory: A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

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What’s your biggest goal for 2025?

What steps have you planned?

Happy New Year! Today, kicks off 2025 with a powerful message: this is your year to thrive, and the key lies within you. Sharing his proven six-step method, Jay walks listeners through a transformative framework for achieving personal and professional goals. From crafting your goals as compelling stories to prioritizing growth over mere outcomes, he offers a fresh perspective on making progress that truly lasts.

Jay dives deep into practical strategies like identifying the one personal and one professional goal that can redefine your life, understanding the power of small yet prioritized changes, and recognizing the need for community, coaching, and consistency to overcome challenges. He emphasizes the importance of measuring progress daily, weekly, and monthly to stay on track and reminds us to frame the year by understanding whether it’s a time to learn, experiment, perform, struggle, or thrive.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Focus on Small Changes with Big Priorities

How to Build Skills for Achieving Big Goals

How to Decide the Type of Year You Want to Have

How to Use the 80/20 Rule for Maximum Impact

How to Transform Energy into Momentum for Personal Growth

You have the tools within you to make this your most transformative year yet. Embrace the challenges, celebrate the victories, and stay committed to your vision. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:28 Focus on Building an Abundance Mindset

04:04 Step #1: Identify Your Top Personal and Professional Goal

10:09 Step #2: What Do You Need to Grow to Achieve Your Goal

14:44 Step #3: Decide What Type of 2025 It’s Going to Be

19:44 Step #4: Small Changes, Big Priorities

22:14 Step #5: Measure What Matters Daily, Weekly, & Monthly

24:15 Step #6: Coaching, Consistency, Community

26:04 What Are You Excited For This Year?

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What bad habit do you want to break?

What’s a health tip you no longer trust?

Today, Jay welcomes back Dr. Rangan Chatterjee, a UK-based physician, bestselling author, and podcast host, to discuss his latest book, Make Change That Lasts. Known for his holistic approach to health and wellness, Dr. Chatterjee shares nine transformative strategies to foster sustainable change in daily life, offering a blueprint for physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

The conversation explores why many health and lifestyle changes fail to stick, diving into the importance of self-awareness and the power of mindset. Dr. Chatterjee recounts how Western medicine often focuses on treating symptoms rather than promoting vitality, advocating for a harmonious blend of Western science and Eastern wisdom. He emphasizes the role of lifestyle choices—nutrition, movement, sleep, and even mindset—in shaping our health.

Jay and Rangan tap into practical tools and methods for understanding and addressing emotional triggers behind habits. They stress the significance of environment and relationships in fostering or sabotaging personal growth. Dr. Chatterjee also challenges the notion of harsh self-discipline, advocating instead for compassion, curiosity, and self-trust as the cornerstones of lasting change. 

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Build Habits That Stick

How to Create a Supportive Environment for Change

How to Reframe Negative Inner Narratives

How to Trust Yourself Instead of External Advice

How to Manage Stress with Mindset Shifts

How to Take Control of Your Health with Simple Choices

Change doesn’t have to feel like an uphill battle—it can be an act of self-love and empowerment. Trust yourself, listen to your inner wisdom, and approach each step of your journey with patience and grace.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:50 Make Change That Truly Last

03:18 The Chronic Lifestyle-Driven Illness

05:58 Transformative Change Comes From Within

10:16 How Do You Break a Bad Habit?

16:17 Unbecome Who You’ve Become

27:08 What are Your Non-Negotiables?

37:31 The Root Cause of Wellness Failure

43:34 The Way You Do Things Matter

48:13 Do Fitness Trackers Work?

53:04 Why Do People Think the Way They Do?

01:03:48 You Can Change Yourself 

Episode Resources:

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Website

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Instagram

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | YouTube

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | TikTok

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | Facebook

Dr. Rangan Chatterjee | X

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

Make Change That Lasts: 9 Simple Ways to Break Free from the Habits That Hold You Back

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What are you leaving behind in 2024?

How do you plan to make more space for growth in 2025?

Today, Jay  reflects on the art of letting go to make space for personal growth in 2025. He shares a transformative framework for self-improvement by identifying ten habits, beliefs, and mindsets to leave behind. Using the Buddha’s analogy of a raft, he emphasizes the importance of releasing old tools that no longer serve us to navigate life’s new challenges more freely.

Jay taps into impactful topics, from overcoming the fear of mistakes to releasing self-consciousness and rethinking the cultural glorification of busyness. He encourages listeners to embrace risk, foster self-compassion, and reframe their relationship with time and perfectionism. Thought-provoking anecdotes, like the role of light and dark in optimizing sleep and the illusion of justice as a universal principle, provide actionable insights for creating a balanced and intentional life.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Let Go of Fear and Embrace Mistakes

How to Balance Self-Criticism and Self-Compassion

How to Stop Waiting for the Perfect Time

How to Make Space for New Habits and Growth

How to Find Silence in a Noisy World

As we prepare to step into a new year, remember that growth doesn’t come from adding more to your plate – it comes from letting go of what no longer serves you. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:29 The Journey Told by the Buddha

04:57 #10: Avoid Making Mistakes 

08:09 #9: Leave Self-Consciousness Behind

10:58 #8: Belief that Busy is Good

14:05 #7: Turn Down the Noise

16:08 #6: Walk Away from Waiting for Justice

18:16 #5: Getting Serious About Light and Dark

20:27 #4: Leave Self Criticism Behind

21:53 #3: Waiting for the Perfect Time

23:40 #2: Mediocrity 

25:48 #1: Stop Fighting Fate

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What stresses you out the most?

Have you noticed stress hurting your health?

Today, Jay sits down with Dan Harris, journalist, meditation advocate, and the author of 10% Happier. If you’ve ever felt like stress and anxiety are running the show in your life, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone—and better yet, there’s a way forward.

Dan opens up about the growing levels of anxiety and stress we’re all feeling, thanks to modern life’s endless distractions like social media, political turmoil, and the ripple effects of the pandemic. He unpacks the difference between stress and anxiety and offers some eye-opening perspectives on why we often feel overwhelmed. But this isn’t just a heavy conversation about what’s wrong with the world—it’s packed with solutions. 

Jay and Dan dive into the magic of human connection, the science of mindfulness, and the art of not being so hard on yourself. Dan shares personal stories about grappling with anger, dealing with claustrophobia, and navigating his own inner critic. You’ll hear how meditation has been a game-changer for him, not in making life perfect, but in making it manageable—and even joyful.

They also get into the nitty-gritty of practical tips: How do you set boundaries with your phone? How do you learn to live with discomfort instead of running from it? And how can you reframe that negative self-talk that’s always lurking? Spoiler alert: It’s not about silencing your inner critic; it’s about befriending it.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Differentiate Stress from Anxiety

How to Build Meaningful Connections That Reduce Stress

How to Reframe Negative Self-Talk

How to Identify the Root Cause of Your Anger

How to Embrace Discomfort for Personal Growth

How to Recognize and Change Destructive Habits

You don’t need to have all the answers or fix everything overnight. It’s about showing up, being kind to yourself, and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of personal growth. 

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:08 How Are You Handling Stress?

02:51 What is Stressing You Out?

07:24 How to Build Deep Relationships

11:32 How Develop a Healthy Relationship

19:43 The Possibility of Reprogramming Your Inner Dialogue

24:16 The Benefits of Meditation

26:51 What is “ME”?

31:14 How Do You Befriend Your Mind?

38:37 There’s a Reason Why You Keep Wanting More

40:39 Get More Familiar with Your Thoughts

43:39 What is Your Daily Meditation Practice?

47:10 The Modular Model of Mind

51:49 Healthy Anger Versus Destructive Anger

57:07 Are You Defensive or Dismissive?

01:00:12 The Power of Having a Sense of Humor

01:03:05 Observe Nature to Understand Yourself 

01:07:23 Dan on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Dan Harris | Website

Dan Harris | TikTok

Dan Harris | LinkedIn

Dan Harris | Instagram

Ten Percent Happier | YouTube

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Happier (10th Anniversary): How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge, and Found Self-Help That Actually Works—A True Story

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Are you tired of dating?

What’s your biggest dating struggle?

Today, Jay talks about the complexities of dating, relationships, and building meaningful connections in today’s fast-paced world. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on trust, emotional maturity, communication, and shared values – traits that truly matter in a partner – while learning to move past surface-level “icks” that can distract us from finding real love.

Through personal anecdotes and insights from Match’s Singles in America study, Jay explores why many of us are chasing outdated ideas of love, trying to recreate the romanticized relationships of our younger selves. Instead, shift your focus to the present, to nurture healthy dynamics built on honesty, respect, and mutual growth.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Build Trust in Relationships

How to Spot the Right Partner Through Their Actions

How to Ask Questions That Reveal True Priorities

How to Balance Patience and Expectations in Relationships

How to Handle Communication Differences Effectively

No matter where you are on your journey –single, dating, or in a long-term relationship – remember that love is a process, not a destination.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:01 Why Dating Has Become Extremely Challenging

06:24 The Core Values Feature

10:28 Questions to Ask on the First Date

12:58 Top Two Turn On with a New Partner

13:55 Are You Being Patient with the Right Person?

17:30 Does Your Partner’s Opinion Bother You?

19:14 Allow Other Forms of Relationships to Grow

21:54 Do You Communicate Properly with Your Partner?

24:01 Most Relationships Has a Healing Problem

25:16 Are You in the Wrong Relationship?

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How do you stay disciplined when life gets busy?

What’s a routine that keeps you on track?

Today, Jay welcomes Alexis Ohanian, tech founder, venture capitalist, and advocate for social change. Known as the co-founder of Reddit and founder of venture firm 776, Alexis shares the profound lessons he's learned from building communities, parenting, and navigating personal and professional challenges.

Alexis shares insights into the evolution of online identities and the surprising dedication of individuals who moderate and foster online spaces; his role as a father, offering a candid glimpse into the delicate balance between introducing his children to the digital world and preserving their innocence. 

The conversation also tackles larger societal issues, such as the importance of role models for young men and the transformative potential of positive male friendships. Alexis doesn’t shy away from discussing the darker sides of technology, including the need for ethical boundaries and his personal experiences advocating for change within Reddit.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Foster a Sense of Community Online

How to Introduce Kids to the Internet Safely

How to Navigate Cultural Differences in Relationships

How to Encourage Grit and Perseverance in Children

How to Lead a Team with Empathy and Vision

How to Prioritize Family While Building a Career

In today’s fast-paced and ever-evolving world, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly matters. Yet, the foundation of a fulfilling life lies in embracing challenges, building strong relationships, and staying true to our values.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:40 The Human Mind’s Deep Need for Community

02:59 The Challenges of Moderating Online Communities

05:26 Raising Kids to Navigate the Internet Safely

10:13 Why AI Can’t Replace Human Empathy

17:28 The Power of Optimism in Uncertain Times

21:42 Drawing Ethical Lines in Content Moderation

29:52 Saying No to Risky and Irresponsible Startups

33:05 The Key Milestones Behind Reddit’s Success

35:05 A Family’s Journey of Resilience and Survival

41:46 Coping with Family Tragedy While Moving Forward

52:27 The Joy of Seeing Hard Work Pay Off

01:00:15 Lessons Learned Through Loss and Reflection

01:12:45 Building Greatness with a Strong Partnership

01:19:19 Choosing the Right Partner for Life and Growth

01:27:23 Teaching Kids to Embrace Failure and Grow

01:35:27 Alexis on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Alexis Ohanian | Facebook

Alexis Ohanian | TikTok

Alexis Ohanian | LinkedIn

Alexis Ohanian | Instagram

Alexis Ohanian | YouTube

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