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331: How to Get Out of Your Head and Actually Enjoy Sex
23 October 2026

331: How to Get Out of Your Head and Actually Enjoy Sex

Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

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Have you ever been intimate with your spouse, but instead of enjoying the moment, you're stuck in your head?

Wondering if they're enjoying it, worrying about your performance, or feeling pressure to make everything go just right?

What if all that effort to make intimacy better is actually making it worse?

In this episode, Dan shares a surprisingly vulnerable story from his own marriage about how his determination to be a great lover backfired—and what finally changed things for him and Emily.

You'll discover why trying harder isn't always the answer, what might be getting in the way of the connection you crave, and how to get back to truly enjoying each other.

Want to take your connection even deeper? Join Dan and Emily for their Virtual Lovemaking Retreat, November 6–7, where you'll learn to slow down and experience intimacy in a whole new way.

https://getyourmarriageon.com/next-levels-virtual-lovemaking-retreat/