188: Your Life Won’t Change Until You Become More Selfish.

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Welcome back to Being Her, where we are officially entering our selfish era. After years of talking about how to get over an ex, move from anxious to secure attachment, and create the life you want, Margarita has realised the answer to all of it is the same: become a little bit more selfish. Not selfish as in taking from others, but deliciously selfish, putting yourself at the centre of your own life and owning it. In this episode, Margarita explains why “decentring men” keeps you thinking about men, why being the good girl hasn’t made you happier or more valued, and how guilt conditioning keeps women convenient instead of unforgettable. She gets candid about her own people-pleasing, finally buying herself caviar, and the difference between being needed and being valued. She also reveals Selfish 30, her brand new 30-day challenge to help you stop delegating your life to others and actually start doing the behaviours of a woman who puts herself first.

In this episode:

1. How is being a good girl actually working out for you

2. Your life is a result of what you repeatedly prioritise

3. Stop volunteering for self sacrifice nobody is giving you a medal

4. Why being selfish feels so uncomfortable

5. Nobody is coming to hand you the life you want

6. Selfish women ask for what they want because they know what they want

7. Become less available to everyone else to become more available to yourself

8. Stop confusing being needed with being valued

9. You cannot think your way into becoming a different woman you have to do the behaviours

10. Selfish 30, 30 days to become the woman you actually want to be

If you are ready to stop thinking about it and actually do something, this is your sign.

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