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Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter
22 October 2026

Episode 345: Why is the Old Testament So Cavalier about Abuse of Women? feat. Dr. Helen Paynter

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What do we do with Bible passages that seem to portray God as indifferent to violence against women? Sheila sits down with Dr. Helen Paynter of the Centre for the Study of Bible and Violence to explore disturbing Old Testament stories, the historical context of biblical laws, and the difference between describing violence and endorsing it. Together, they consider how reading Scripture through the lens of Jesus can help us wrestle honestly with difficult questions, take survivors' experiences seriously, and rediscover God's care for the vulnerable.

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LINKS MENTIONED: 

    Journal for the Study of Bible & ViolenceRev. Dr. Helen Paynter’s bioDr. Helen’s book on Judges 19Dr. Helen’s blog post on Judges 19Bare Marriage Podcast Episode 299 with Dr. Helen PaynterThe Miss.Judged study on marginalized women of the Bible

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