You never forget the first time someone tells you, “I’m hungry, but I’m not allowed to go out.” That sentence set off a chain reaction: an African food bank that feeds dignity as much as stomachs, a Pidgin English translation service that makes NHS guidance usable, and a befriending network that proves single mums are doing double the work and deserve double the support. We sit down with a lawyer‑turned‑founder whose courage and clarity turned personal stigma into a citywide safety net for women and girls.
We trace the journey from a church testimony to a queue of women quietly living with abuse, immigration stress and isolation. The throughline is simple but radical: help starts before therapy. Start with food that families recognise, language they understand, and spaces where culture is a strength. From living‑room gatherings to a registered charity serving Greater Manchester and beyond, she shows how to build confidence after domestic abuse, how to partner instead of duplicate, and why dance therapy beats a cold craft table when you need joy to return. Along the way, you will hear how visa barriers were navigated, why non‑physical abuse must be named, and how a movement grows when former service users become volunteers, drivers, broadcasters and founders.
We go deep on the UK’s first befriending service for single mothers, the realities behind “no recourse to public funds,” and the subtleties of designing culturally appropriate services that actually get used. Expect practical blueprints: referral ecosystems, one‑to‑one basic IT and English support, toy and baby banks, and campaigns that flip stigma into pride. Her book, In A Strange Land, threads the personal with policy, proving you can achieve, organise and lead even before citizenship papers arrive.
If stories of domestic abuse recovery, African diaspora communities, immigration resilience, and community leadership speak to you, you’ll find tools you can use and hope with evidence. Listen, share with a friend who cares about women’s safety and dignity, and leave a review so more people can find this work. Subscribe for more conversations that start where systems stop and carry people the rest of the way.
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