59 | Normal vs. Trauma Behavior: How to Tell the Difference (and What to Do!) — with Adoption Therapist Jeanette Yoffe, Part II
15 October 2025

59 | Normal vs. Trauma Behavior: How to Tell the Difference (and What to Do!) — with Adoption Therapist Jeanette Yoffe, Part II

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About

How do you know if your adopted child’s behavior is normal… or rooted in trauma? This is a question I hear from adoptive moms all the time!


 


In this episode, I chat with Jeanette Yoffe — adoptee, therapist, author, speaker, and founder of Celia Center and Yoffe Therapy — about how to parent with connection and compassion.


 


Here's what we talk about: 



    How to spot when behaviors are trauma-related
    Simple tools and interventions to help kids process their complex stories
    The PACE model for attachment-focused parenting
    Why minimizing struggles amplifies them — and how connection diffuses them
    Using Sad Bags, Anger Bags, and Shame-wiches 

 


Tune in for Part II today, and go back and listen to Part I if you missed it! 


 


Ways to reach Jeanette:


Main website: www.JeanetteYoffe.com 
YouTube Channel: Jeanette-icallySpeaking 


The Traumatized & At-Risk Youth Toolbox Book


Psychology Today: Inner Life of Foster Care


 


Book and body socks on Amazon:


Jeanette's Book


Body Sock 


 


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Next Steps:


 


Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life.


 


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