206. Is your leadership style actually just manipulation?
21 April 2026

206. Is your leadership style actually just manipulation?

21.FIVE - Professional Pilots Podcast

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Dylan and Max sit down with Kyle Freiberger and Mike Sferrazza from First Class Leaders to bridge the gap between technical proficiency and effective aviation leadership . This episode explores why traditional CRM often fails to address the human element and how pilots at any rank can cultivate influence through self-awareness and emotional intelligence . The guys dive into the "Take the Lead" framework, the DISC behavioral tool, and the critical shift from defending your intentions to owning your impact on the crew . Learn more about First Class Leaders Show Notes

0:00 Intro

2:11 Starting First Class Leaders

6:04 Dealing With Conflict

13:37 Program Offerings

24:24 Mindset Shift

31:02 Unique Circumstances

35:46 Pilot Personalities

55:22 Next Steps & Final Thoughts

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